Saj says: April 19, 2011 at 2:00 pm I agree with this. The men who instant messaged without an email prior were definitely weirder and just kind of creepier IMO. It got to the point where I would only talk to those who emailed me and ignored all incoming chat messages. Like or Dislike: Thumb up 4 Thumb down 1 Reply Paula says: April 19, 2011 at 2:17 pm Ditto this. I’ve had some OK guys contact me on chat, and even some that I’ve gone out with, but usually what I do is tell them I’m busy, and to send me a message. The ones that take the time to send a message, I’ll then review their profile and get back to them if I’m interested. I often forget to sign out of my browser window, so it got to where guys were interrupting me all day long, which was annoying. If they won’t do anything other than chat, then I usually write them off, or they give up when they realize they actually have to make some effort before I’ll respond. https://bit.ly/3WBqLh7 https://bit.ly/47KRQDz https://bit.ly/4oScaK5 https://bit.ly/3WZtmlf https://bit.ly/3WFCriN https://bit.ly/3JjijQD https://bit.ly/4nHygOB https://bit.ly/47VHSAu https://bit.ly/4qIhMZ9 https://bit.ly/4nIvpF0 https://bit.ly/3LmIiHq https://bit.ly/43T91BA https://bit.ly/3WBqQ4p https://bit.ly/4oTeUXK https://bit.ly/47CpdZ5 https://bit.ly/47ZsmUg https://bit.ly/48ZQMy1 https://bit.ly/4oVywdP https://bit.ly/47BNqig