on January 25, 2009 at 5:56 pmalphadominance
taramokhtari,
eroswheel put it well above. If you are an outlier and demand that your dates are equivalent in whatever quality, you limit yourself to an infinitesimally small pool of candidates. You can either live with this, or recognize that everyone has their own strengths and abilities and appreciate them for whatever they are.
Perhaps a woman I’m dating has an IQ of 120, so is reasonably intelligent, but is very creative and artistic, or beautiful, or has social intelligence. One can still relate in these other areas and they bring their own gifts. We are the summation of our qualities. I’d rather relate at the level someone is on, than not at all. With many people it is much like relating with children, though you aren’t in the same place, it can still be rewarding.
Instinct is far from obsolete. It is a human conceit to think we transcend our animal natures. If this were so, there wouldn’t be nearly as much commonality of experience. People are banally similar when you get down to the core essence of the matter.
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