Neither are acceptable, despite your attempts to brand them “socially appropriate.” It doesn’t matter what I think is acceptable. It doesn’t matter what you think is acceptable. It doesn’t matter what centuries of moral code thinks is acceptable. I don’t know how many different ways to say it. You are preaching to yourself. People will do what they do. And, YOUR job (for the purpose of this blog) is to understand what they are doing, to grasp motivations when it’s helpful and help others do the same. Otherwise, your comments are as useful and interesting as others judging you, for example, for having multiple sex partners. It doesn’tt matter to the analysis what you think is or is not acceptable, or what “you would do.” It only matters what people actually do (and why.) Again. Not Paula. Not me. Others. My only point about social rules is that there is a range of objective normal and if you’re not in the range (which you are not) then you are not going to perceive siituations accurately (which you don’t.) That is the thrust of my comment. Like or Dislike: Thumb up 7 Thumb down 1 <p><a href="https://mdbook.obspm.fr/s/CrBAX-q8u">Oriental Dating For Men</a></p> <p><a href="https://md.nowum.fh-aachen.de/s/sdUKKNm4Z">The Power and Limits of Positivity in Dating Game</a></p> <p><a href="https://md.edgar.bzh/s/UkksAItxi">The Threat to Traditional Gender Roles and Society</a></p> <p><a href="https://md.asturias.red/s/iM7UbKCFk">Samba, Beaches, and Connections: Dating as an Expat in Rio de Janeiro</a></p> <p><a href="https://pad.numerique-en-commun.fr/s/GhbDLuay0">What It Is Like Dating Someone Breathtaking?</a></p> <p><a href="https://docs.stephtransition.fr/s/5RQDl-fZ4">Girls You Shouldn&rsquo;t Fall For: The Thanksgiving Edition</a></p>