I don’t believe that it is acceptable to lie to your date OR mate. I actually think it is very unhealthy. Giving a vague answer to a very confrontational question on a first date with someone you barely know and have no desire to see again is one thing. Being untruthful to your partner with whom trust is possibly the most important thing is a totally different situation.
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Paula Says:
July 20th, 2011 at 9:44 pm
I agree with everything you say, DMN, except that I don’t think lying is in the range of objective normal. That hasn’t been my experience in my life, either myself, or with the others who have been part of my life. The number of people I have ushered out of my life due to lying is a handful of the people I’ve met in my lifetime, and I’m pretty rigid about doing that. Some may have not be caught yet, certainly, and others have not yet earned a place in my life anyway, so if they lie, I don’t have to get rid of them so much as not permit them further advancement, but even still, it’s a very small percentage: not “everybody lies (to their dates/mates).”
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