If your desire is to limit your sexual partner(s) to those who will be your spouse, then you should date within the pool of men who value that. Part of what you need to think about now is why that was so important (if not for religious reasons), and come to terms with it. We talk a lot on this blog about the Golden Vagina syndrome, the idea that (to be blunt here) the man simply getting to put his dick in that magical place is something he should have to bow and scrape and slay dragons for. Without the religious conviction, it’s a pretty empty and entitled position. If you aren’t having sex for the pure enjoyment of it, but merely to bestow a great and priceless Gift, you’re going to have a lot of resentment ahead. Well-loved. Like or Dislike: Thumb up 24 Thumb down 3 Reply Dimplz says: May 18, 2011 at 8:49 pm Sounds to me like she was raped. To boot, she’s codependent. Love? No. No. NO. There’s a difference between REALLY wanting to do it and manipulating, forcing, and not respecting someone’s wishes about protection. Love is the decision to act for the good of the other. When he ignored your pleas to protect you (and himself), he neglected to love you. This guy is no good. If you don’t end it now, be prepared for worse. Two months in and he’s already raped you. What will he do as time goes on? https://bit.ly/3LoHr9f https://bit.ly/4oEMv7S https://bit.ly/43TvaQn https://bit.ly/4hMY7mN https://bit.ly/4nMTsCX https://bit.ly/3WM6YLV https://bit.ly/4o2AlVD https://bit.ly/4nMvYxA https://bit.ly/4qKUQbE https://bit.ly/4nJs8W2 https://bit.ly/3XiklUe https://bit.ly/4nEWl8N https://bit.ly/4otw5zf https://bit.ly/43dDQAY https://bit.ly/4hJ1xXC https://bit.ly/49El0GW https://bit.ly/4hL9Nq6 https://bit.ly/3LPqWmw https://bit.ly/3LqsDa8 https://bit.ly/4hNFfnL https://bit.ly/4hKgNUc https://bit.ly/4hNogC7 https://bit.ly/3XiTS92 https://bit.ly/4hNF6AJ https://bit.ly/4hNF8IR